Friday, May 27, 2005

I found this pretty interesting.

This was an article I heard on CJOB 680. This an editorial called From… Luther’s Dorr Step. The website I am sourcing this from is http://www.unioneagle.com/2004/july/29dorr.html and it is very interesting indeed.

Hopefully I credited it well enough to avoid and copyright infringments. If I did not credit it fully and you recognize that, please let me know and I will change it promptly.

How did the kids of '40s, '50s, '60s survive?

If you were a kid in the ’40s, ’50s and ’60s, or perhaps even the ’70s, you may recall some of what is to follow. The ideas came across my desk a few weeks ago in a piece titled, “How did people over the age of 35 ever make it?”

That may be an exaggeration but, for example: “We ate cupcakes, bread and butter, and drank soda pop with sugar in it but we were never overweight because we were always outside playing.”

There’s something to be said for that. In those decades mentioned, in most little towns you could find kids playing baseball in a vacant lot, often being late for meals and often playing until it was dark.

There was such a lot in Princeton over by the railroad tracks on the west side of town where, if you hit it over the tracks, it was a homer. Kids played there all day, day after day after day. Tell me the last time you saw that in Princeton.

And when those kids took time out to play summer baseball in the morning on the South Elementary fields, it was just kids. There were no parents or grandparents sitting on the sidelines, coolers and all, and the league went for seven or eight weeks instead of five. Now we’re more organized.

“We didn’t have Playstations, Nintendo 64, X-Boxes, no video games at all, no 99-cent channels on cable, video tape movies, Surround Sound, cell phones, personal computers or Internet chat rooms.”

So true, so true! And the kids still turned out OK and found things to do.

Or, “We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the street lights came on. No one was able to reach us all day. No cell phones!”

I remember not necessarily going home just because the street lights came on. You could still play catch, or shoot baskets, or even catch and throw a football. I remember a baseball going through a window one night and all of us running. And I remember banging into a car one night while running a post pattern but still hanging onto the football.

How about this one: “We drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle.”

Not that there’s anything wrong with bottled water. Most of us are probably jealous that we didn’t think of putting water into a bottle and then selling it. But it was a simple thing to grab that hose, if not as politically correct as the water bottle is today.

“We had friends. We went outside and found them. We played dodge ball and sometimes the ball really hurt.”

Dodge ball, or trench as it was also called, became politically incorrect when coed physical education classes began in Princeton schools. In fact, there was one Princeton phy ed instructor who hated to see that happen and he told the boys it was OK to throw the ball at girls, or at the class bullies.

“We rode bikes or walked to a friend’s house and knocked on the door, or rang the bell, or just walked in and talked to them.”

Imagine doing that today.

“We fell out of trees and broke bones and teeth, and there were no lawsuits. They were accidents. No one was to blame but us. Remember accidents?”

Or this: “Our actions were our own. Consequences were expected. The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law. Imagine that.”

Or this: “Our baby cribs were covered with bright-colored, lead-based paint.”

Does any of this ring true? Or, to those of you who weren’t kids in those decades, does it make us sound old?

Trouble is, those things are all true. How did we ever make it?

Thursday, May 19, 2005

No news...

is good news, albeit boring.

Summer classes are crazy and are doing a good job in kicking my ass.

I've had little time to do anything else but my studies, work, eat, and sleep.
(with the occasional Friday night bender...)

For equilibrium,
Work must be relatively equal to Party.

Take care for now, I'll have some free time to write soon.
Dirty

Thursday, May 05, 2005

Think about it...

Why do people remember bad situations more clearly than they would their happiest?

Wednesday, May 04, 2005

Enough about me...

...let's talk about me!

Okay, here's something new.

If you've been keeping up with this online diary, you know a lot about me. Probably more than one should know about a person unless you've been married for 50 years.

Who ever talks about this kind of material?
I really don't think anyone does.

Maybe it's a fear to let people know your true feelings, and to voice your inner conflicts. You might come across this blog by chance, but it is more than likely that you are someone I know. Every time I see someone I know, I ponder to myself, do they know what I wrote, what I'm thinking? Obviously if I was uncomfortable with that, I would not keep writing these pieces.

I stare this person in the eyes, either not knowing much about the person, or knowing a little bit, or knowing a lot. I only know a few people very well.

This is not a guilt trip into trying to get one to talk about sensitive material. When you are comfortable, and if the topic comes up, I'm sure you would share your experience. My deal is that a person might have a great sense of who I am and where I am coming from. I will not say that this makes me uncomfortable, but it makes me question where I stand, and sometimes (if you can believe it) with nothing to say.

This is my return to you, gentle reader.

You have taken the time to listen to my ongoing story by reading this blog.
Thank you for that.

I'm offering my patience to hear your story if you ever need an ear.

Anything goes. Everything stays.
(Explaination upon request)